"not our fault but still our responsibility to do something."

I LOVE this. As a specialist in mind body medicine, I have heard all too many times, "WHAT!! You're BLAMING me for (fill in the blank)?"

No, there's NO blame. But now that you KNOW that the mind can affect the body, isn't it wonderful to know you have yet one more tool for healing?

Thanks for that phrasing. VERY helpful.